I wouldn't be happy if no one liked me, but I don't care if everyone doesn't like me. I know I have colleagues who don't like me, but as long as they're civil and we can work together it's okay.
Sometimes yes, sometimes no. It depends on my mood as well. The closer they are to me in my life, then yes I'd want and expect them to like me. This is one of those inner voices things. I often have trouble accepting that someone likes me. I don't understand sometimes.
I'm a big time people pleaser and it had caused big problems with my emotional state. It also keeps me from getting too close to people. It's something I've been working on for a long time but it's a slow process of not caring what people think or letting it play mind games with your head.
I wouldn't be happy if no one liked me, but I don't care if everyone doesn't like me. I know I have colleagues who don't like me, but as long as they're civil and we can work together it's okay.
ReplyDeleteOnly the people that matter and the people that are in my immediate circle!
ReplyDeleteThe people who don't like you are usually just passing through your life and not here to stay. I keep this in mind and it doesn't bother me.
ReplyDeleteSometimes yes, sometimes no. It depends on my mood as well. The closer they are to me in my life, then yes I'd want and expect them to like me. This is one of those inner voices things. I often have trouble accepting that someone likes me. I don't understand sometimes.
ReplyDeleteI'm a big time people pleaser and it had caused big problems with my emotional state. It also keeps me from getting too close to people. It's something I've been working on for a long time but it's a slow process of not caring what people think or letting it play mind games with your head.
ReplyDeleteI would say no, but recently when I got a nasty evaluation, I realized that I care what people think more often than not.
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